also
does anyone know of any good guides for parents of trans* kids?
i need one to give my parents
i’m reading the gendered intelligence one right now and it’s…rubbing me up entirely the wrong way by basically saying “the most important thing is the comfort of the family” rather than “the most important thing is the mental wellbeing of the trans* person”
which is definitely not the message i want my family to get
and it seriously just advocated the use of the phrase “sex change” because it’s “easier”
so fuck that
anyone?
